When you are insulted on purpose

It hurts, and we feel like paying back, making the offender suffer just like we did.

But that’s why the offender insulted you in the first place: he was suffering, he was in pain, and he wanted to make you feel the same way.

Therefore, there’s no need to pay back the insult. No need to make the offender suffer because he’s already suffering. He’s already in pain.

Just go and heal yourself. That’s the only way to make justice. Whatever the pain your offender is feeling, it’s going to be even worse to realize that you are healed and well and he’s not.